The biggest trap of people into which they drag themselves into: “first I will get this, this, and then this, and then I will become happy and contented.”
Thus, a person deceives himself and falls into a terrible dependence, constantly in tension, lives unsatisfied, in suffering.
Because, having received what you want, it devalues, and the whole life is subject to the fulfillment of desires through suffering.
If desires do not come true, then this is a reason for great disappointment and tormenting oneself.
Therefore, the Universe gives even more lessons and exams so that we finally understand that happiness is not in this.