Desired change begins with acceptance of reality. How do we usually behave when we don't like something? We often get involved in the struggle, irritation, resistance, despondency, resentment, aggression and begin to radiate a lot of destructive energy. Thus, we move away from ourselves the desired reality and create even more difficulties for ourselves in life. The Universe gives us even more exams, sometimes difficult, to convey to us a simple truth.
The truth is simple. What is it? If we want to change something in our reality, some event or relationship with a person, we must first internally accept the situation.
To accept is to internally agree and show neither struggle nor resistance.