The way other people look at us can be very different from the way we think about ourselves. And vice versa…
ხშირად We often perceive people through filters through our fears, past grievances, childhood traumas, birth scenarios. And this can be very far from reality ..
⠀ And these distortions cause even more dissatisfaction and frustration in us and the relationship suffers ...
⠀ An interesting thought was said by my mentor: "If you do not attach importance, then there is nothing to forgive ..."
Expectations permeated in an ideal person create something dangerous for us.