We will be valued and respected as much as we value ourselves at a deep inner level and what kind of attitude we allow ourselves to be treated (in dignity, and not in struggle and self-affirmation).
Everything will be inversely proportional to the amount of our uncertainty, fears, internal restrictions, blocks.
A person who fights, competes and stands up - in fact, is dissatisfied inside and does not experience happiness from himself. In fact, it is a devaluation of oneself.Either you have intention, weightiness, a calm sense of significance, self-confidence, and then your goals are realized easier, faster and easier.
Or you spend your energy and attention on internal conflicts, fears and struggles.